Is Frankincense Oil Safe for Breastfeeding Moms? Let’s Break It Down
Hey there, fellow mamas! If you’re scrolling through this, chances are you’ve been wondering—can I use frankincense oil while breastfeeding? I get it, between late-night feedings, diaper changes, and trying to remember if you brushed your teeth that morning, the last thing you need is to stress about whether your favorite essential oil is safe. Let me tell you, I’ve been there too! So let’s dive into this topic together, shall we?
What Even Is Frankincense Oil?
First off, let’s talk about what frankincense oil actually is. It’s made from the resin of the Boswellia tree (specifically the Indian variety, Boswellia serrata, in this case). For centuries, it’s been used in everything from religious ceremonies to skincare, but lately, it’s been getting a lot of love for its potential health benefits. Think anti-inflammatory properties, mood-boosting effects, and even helping with stress and anxiety. Oh, and if you’re a mom with softer breasts, some say it’s a great choice—though I’m not sure how that works exactly, but hey, every little bit helps, right?

Why Do People Use Frankincense Oil Anyway?
Let’s get real—being a new mom is HARD. Between the sleep deprivation, the endless to-do list, and the constant worry about your little one, it’s no wonder we’re all looking for something to help us relax. Frankincense oil is known for its calming scent, which can help ease stress and anxiety. Some even say it has anti-depressant effects, which is a huge win when you’re dealing with the baby blues or just feeling overwhelmed. Plus, its anti-inflammatory properties might help with any soreness or swelling you’re dealing with post-birth. But wait—can we actually use it while breastfeeding?
The Big Question: Is It Safe for Breastfeeding?
Okay, here’s the deal: Frankincense oil can be used safely while breastfeeding, but it’s not a free-for-all. You can’t just slather it on or inhale it like there’s no tomorrow. Let’s break down the do’s and don’ts to keep you and your baby safe.
Do: Dilute It Properly
First and foremost, always dilute essential oils with a carrier oil. Think sweet almond oil, coconut oil, or hemp seed oil. Why? Because essential oils are super concentrated, and applying them directly to your skin can cause irritation. Plus, if you’re breastfeeding, your skin is extra sensitive right now. A good rule of thumb is 1-2 drops of frankincense oil per teaspoon of carrier oil. That way, it’s gentle on your skin and less likely to transfer to your baby.
Don’t: Ingest It
Seriously, do NOT swallow frankincense oil. Essential oils are not meant to be eaten, especially when you’re breastfeeding. They can be toxic to your baby if they get into your bloodstream and then into your breast milk. So skip the oral supplements or adding it to your tea—stick to topical use or inhalation.
Do: Patch Test First
Every mom’s skin is different, and what works for one might not work for another. Before you slather frankincense oil all over, do a patch test. Apply a small amount of the diluted oil to your inner arm, wait 24-48 hours, and see if you have any redness, itching, or irritation. If you do, skip it—your skin isn’t a fan.
Don’t: Use Solvent-Extracted Oils
Some essential oils are extracted using solvents like butane or hexane. These chemicals can leave traces in the oil, which is not something you want near your baby. Always look for oils that are steam-distilled—they’re the safest option. Check the label before you buy, okay?
Do: Consult Your Doctor
This is non-negotiable. Before using any essential oil while breastfeeding, talk to your doctor or a lactation consultant. They know your medical history and can give you personalized advice. Even if you think it’s safe, it’s better to be safe than sorry. After all, your baby’s health is the most important thing.
How to Use Frankincense Oil Safely While Breastfeeding
So, if you’ve got the green light from your doctor, how can you use frankincense oil? Here are a few ideas:
- Aromatherapy: Add a few drops to a diffuser in your bedroom or living room. The scent can help you relax after a long day. Just make sure the room is well-ventilated, and keep the diffuser away from your baby’s face.
- Topical Massage: Mix a few drops with a carrier oil and massage it into your shoulders, neck, or feet. It can help ease tension and soreness. Avoid applying it to your breasts or areas where your baby might lick or touch, just to be safe.
- Bath Time: Add a few drops to a warm bath (along with some Epsom salts if you like). It’s a great way to unwind, but make sure the water isn’t too hot—you don’t want to overheat while breastfeeding.
When to Skip Frankincense Oil
There are a few times when you should avoid using frankincense oil altogether:
- If your baby has sensitive skin or allergies.
- If you have any open wounds or skin conditions (like eczema) on the area where you’d apply the oil.
- If you’re taking any medications—some essential oils can interact with drugs, so check with your doctor first.
Final Thoughts: Is It Worth It?
At the end of the day, using frankincense oil while breastfeeding is possible, but it requires caution. If you’re feeling stressed, anxious, or just need a little pick-me-up, it might be worth trying—just make sure you do it safely. Remember, your baby’s health comes first, so always err on the side of caution. And hey, if you’re not sure, skip it! There are plenty of other ways to relax—like a warm cup of tea, a 10-minute nap (if you can swing it), or a chat with a fellow mom.
So, what do you think? Have you tried frankincense oil while breastfeeding? Let me know in the comments—I’d love to hear your experience!

